"Tip # 3. Even a guy who will admit that you're better looking than him should still be able to tell you you're beautiful. If he holds back in order to control the situation, or to keep you, or keep you down, he's got issues."This is really a two part tip. PART 1. Learn to accept a fucking compliment, especially if the guy means it. Value it. Treasure it. Write it down. We do notice when you look nice, but sometimes we forget to express it. How you react to a compliment, also controls how and when the next time we compliment you. So don't jump all over him with your negativity, because he won't dish it out again.
"A compliment is intended to make you feel good. If you frown, look at the ground, or look away, the other person will be confused or uncomfortable. Smiling will make both of you feel good." -- wikihow.com
PART 2. He's got issues. Actually, all guys have issues, but if he's not complimenting you to make you feel needy, not wanted or ugly... he might as well punch you in the face. It's abusive and controlling and isn't right. It's emotional abuse and you should point it out. I believe in second chances, but he's really got to realize what he's doing even if its subconsciously. Though be careful not to confuse his lack of compliments as abuse. Find a way to test the situation. Yes, I just said to use mind games. (Oh God.)
As good as it Gets - Legendary Jack Nicholson
(This is part 3 of the "31 Things" series inspired by the article, "Things I Wish I'd Known About Dating When I was 21".)